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Abel lifting Aidan outside the ivy-covered Korbel winery during their engagement celebration
YOU’RE INVITED · SONOMA COUNTY

Abel &
Aidan

November 21, 2026

Zegarra Estate
Sebastopol, California

Explore the weekend

With aloha, always.

NOVEMBER 19–22, 2026

A weekend
with our people.

A little backyard barbecue.
A little aloha. A very big “I do.”

Here’s the weekend we’re imagining. The schedule below is a working plan; we’ll share final times before the celebration. All times are Pacific.

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THE WEEKEND AT A GLANCE

Friday Backyard day & HopMonk at 8
Saturday Wedding & celebration
Sunday Your journey home

THURSDAY · NOVEMBER 19

An early hello to wine country.

Some of you will arrive Thursday evening. Settle into your accommodations and enjoy the start of the weekend; no hosted gathering is scheduled that night.

FRIDAY · NOVEMBER 20

A backyard kind of welcome.

Zegarra Estate · Daytime gathering · Start time to come

A relaxed pool and yard day to settle in, meet everyone and spend time together. We’re planning a barbecue with poke and fish appetizers prepared by Abel’s dad, lawn games and plenty of catching up.

Bring something comfortable for hanging out; pool time will depend on the weather. Food and daytime timing are still taking shape.

A little taste of home.

8:00 P.M. · OUR FRIDAY NIGHT PLAN

HopMonk Beer Garden

Then we’ll head into Sebastopol for an evening in the beer garden, with hopes of catching live music together.

230 Petaluma Avenue, Sebastopol

A past outdoor concert in HopMonk Sebastopol’s beer garden beneath trees and string lights
A glimpse of the beer-garden atmosphere.

Our planned arrival is 8 p.m. The November 20 music lineup, tickets, group arrangements and any event-specific age limits still need confirmation.

HopMonk details ↗

SATURDAY · NOVEMBER 21

The wedding day

Zegarra Estate · Proposed schedule

  1. Arrive & settle in

    Make your way to the estate, say hello and get settled before the ceremony.

  2. The ceremony

    An earlier “I do,” with more daylight for the moments that follow.

  3. Cocktail hour

    Drinks and bites while we take photos and enjoy the afternoon light.

  4. A little time together

    Finish photos, mingle and ease into the evening before dinner.

  5. Dinner & celebration

    Gather for dinner, toasts and celebrating. This earlier dinner time is part of our working plan.

  6. One last toast at the estate

    We’ll begin winding down and get ready for estate quiet hours at 10 p.m.

  7. Into town, if you’re up for it

    The earliest planned pickup for Old Main Street Saloon is 9:45 p.m. Final departure times and transport are still being arranged.

  8. The proposed ride back

    Tentative return from the Saloon to the estate/Airbnb. Hotel guests would arrange their own ride to their accommodation; confirm pickup options before the evening.

SUNDAY · NOVEMBER 22

Until the next adventure.

A slow morning and your journey home. No hosted farewell event is planned at this stage; follow your own accommodation’s checkout time.

A FEW THINGS TO HELP YOU PLAN
Travel & a little SonomaAirports, stays, transport and our favorite places ↗Your questions, answeredAttire, guests, food and the little details ↗Where our story beganThe redwoods, the ring and a Korbel toast ↗
WE’RE SAVING YOU A PLACE

Will you
join us?

RSVP opens soon. We’ll share the link and deadline once the final plans are ready.

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GIFTS & REGISTRY

A note on gifts

We’ll share our registry details here once they’re ready.

NOVEMBER 21, 2026 · ZEGARRA ESTATE

Come for the love.
Stay for the memories.

With aloha, Aidan & Abel

RSVP details coming soon

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